Ep 136: How Crying at Muffins with Moms Led to a Key Business Lesson

Sep 24

How Crying at Muffins with Moms Led to a Key Business Lesson

Have you ever felt unseen or unheard in a group setting? Maybe you've experienced the frustration of not having your unique needs recognized or accommodated. In a recent podcast episode, I shared a tear-filled morning experience that led me to reflect on the importance of accommodating individual needs in a community setting. As you listen to this episode, pay attention to these key takeaways.

Feeling Unseen:

The experience of feeling unseen at a Mother's Day Out event highlighted the importance of recognizing and addressing individual needs within a community. When someone's unique requirements are overlooked, it can lead to feelings of exclusion and frustration. By taking the time to understand and accommodate these needs, you can make every member feel valued and respected. This doesn’t mean you ignore your cultural boundaries, rather it’s about accommodating members within your community who may have unique needs when possible.

Creating Space:

Ensuring there is room at the table for everyone, both figuratively and literally, is essential for creating a community that goes above and beyond to accommodate and recognize the individual and not just the group. By acknowledging and addressing the unique needs of community members, we can create spaces where everyone feels welcomed and valued.

Whether they be dietary restrictions, accessibility requirements, or other considerations, you show that you value and prioritize the well-being of each member. This simple act can go a long way in making individuals feel welcomed and accepted, regardless of their circumstances.

Recognizing Outliers:

While it may be easier to cater to the majority, going the extra mile to recognize and accommodate outliers can have a profound impact. By acknowledging and addressing the unique needs of individuals who may not fit the typical mold, you demonstrate a commitment to creating a welcoming and supportive community environment. Small gestures, such as providing closed captions for videos or creating subgroups for specific needs, can make a significant difference in how valued and supported members feel.

Personalized Engagement:

Calling out silent lurkers and offering individual attention can break down barriers and encourage participation. By creating opportunities for every member to be seen and heard, you foster a sense of belonging and connection within the community. Taking the time to engage with individuals on a personal level shows that you care about their experiences and are invested in their well-being, strengthening the bonds that tie your community together.

The Power of Accommodation:

Accommodating individual needs facilitates progress and cultivates a culture of empathy and understanding. When you show that you are willing to go the extra mile to meet someone's specific requirements, you demonstrate a deep level of care and consideration. Accommodation benefits the individual and enriches the overall community experience, creating a space where everyone feels valued, respected, and supported.

Accommodating Unique Community Needs:

Recognizing and accommodating individual needs in your community is crucial for fostering a sense of belonging and support. If you want to delve deeper into this topic and learn more about creating welcoming spaces where people feel valued, I invite you to listen to the full podcast episode. Let's work together to make everyone feel special, seen, recognized, and loved in our communities.